BC I am drinking wine, sheesh! Can't a mom unwind? Evidently not. And with that one question I knew it was going to be a long night and I was right.
Last weekend I took a mini vacation with my boyfriend and two friends. Well the past two weeks my lovely teenager has been unbearable bc I didn't take him. I have plans to take him to the beach in Aug and have had these plans longer than the weekend plans with the boyfriend.
The child decided to lay into me bc I "always" do fun things when he isn't around. Well he isn't here am I supposed to sit around and do nothing? Two years ago when he was visiting his father I took an evening trip to Atlantic City for dinner, yes I went on a ride all the way to AC for dinner. I was back the same night, he would not have enjoyed the quick trip but yet he complains about it. Then last year I did go to Busch Gardens for a weekend without him and he is acting like I mooned the pope. Please let it be known that whenever I do something for myself I always make sure to do something for and or with him but it's never enough. I am so ready to scream.
I am at the point where I do not want to do anything with him the rest of the summer. We are supposed to go to an O's game where he gets to pick the section we sit in, and go to six flags for a day and go to the beach, plus I got him tickets to a concert he really wanted to go to and was looking at tickets for a second concert.
I realize he is bored and that is why he is lashing out but I try to find things to do with him and all he does is complain so I don't do anything and he complains about that. I cannot win with this child right now. When will this constant fight end?
